for stepmoms who want to thrive
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REDEFINE
STEPMOTHERHOOD
REDEFINE
STEP-
MOTHERHOOD
what would it
be like
To not not have anxiety before seeing the ex. To not argue with your partner about their lack of follow through with house rules.
To have the tools to improve relationships, minimize conflict and feel less irritated by all the things outside of your control?
What would it feel like to feel so confident in how you're showing up as stepmom, that the double standards and snide remarks don't even phase you?
IT'S POSSIBLE (SERIOUSLY, IT IS). I'M HERE TO SHOW YOU HOW TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.
hey stepmom,
challenges you might be facing:
You feel insecure and like an outsider in your stepfamily dynamic. You feel good enough until you're not. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
You find yourself obsessing over the ex. What she may/may not do, how she feels about you, how she parents, and what curve balls she's going to throw next. You think about her WAY more than you should.
You feel like you have no control over your life. Your life is dictated by an agreement you had no part in creating. It's all about the ex, the kids and their life before you. You just want to book a damn vacation without having to ask permission or look at the custody schedule.
“Honestly, working with Jamie changed my WHOLE DANG LIFE.”
- sarah from saskatoon
You Need
There is no one size fits all approach to thriving as a stepmom. We're going to say "screw the rules" and create a plan that works for you.
The big question should be "is what I am doing working?" "Is our family thriving?" "Are my relationships solid?" "Am I proud of my reactions?" If not, I'll get you there.
Even the ones you have no control over (cough cough... the ex, the past, how the kids feel about this new life). No more getting hijacked and having reactions you don't feel great about the following day...
JOIN THE MASTERMIND
Redefine Stepmotherhood
It's your last opportunity to get access to my signature stepmom framework that's supported thousands of stepmoms
MASTERMIND BREAKDOWN:
Module 1
AUDIT + DEEP DIVE: We're going to identify your stepfamily stressors and audit your stepfamily life. This process often blows stepmoms mind. You're going to get super clear about what's working, what's not, what's triggering you and the WHY behind it all.
Teach Me Plz
Module 2
COLD HARD TRUTHS: You'll dive into the why of your stepfamily dynamic. I'm talking your partner's reactions, how the ex shows up, all things stepkids, in-laws and mutual family/friends. Empathy in stepfamily life is key.
You don't need to agree with someone else's perspective, but understanding it will help set the foundation for change. This may not feel important, but it is!
Hmm... really eh?
Module 3
BOUNDARIES + DISENGAGING: These are the buzz words in the stepfamily space. Here's the truth. The way you set boundaries and disengage (if it's the right move for you) can either improve relationships or make things a helluva lot worse.
I'm going to show you how to do it right way.
Oh, I need this
Module 4
YOUR MARRIAGE: GET ALIGNED. Your partner is the reason you're a stepmom in the first place. This week we'll dive into marriage tips to help you feel aligned and on the same page (even when you're not).
Wow really? I'm in
Module 5
CREATE YOUR PLAN. It's time to make the plan and be the expert on your own life. You'll take all the info you've learned and create a plan that works for you. Disengaging, your relationship with the ex, boundaries, your stepkids, what you will and will not do, how you will and will not respond. No more feeling like you've been punched in the gut. It's time to take back control.
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How does this sound?
THE RESULTS
01
Have a game plan to show up as a stepmom in a way that feels right for you nd your family.
02
Create healthy relationships even with those who don't want a healthy relationship with you
03
Stop with the ex wife / stepmom pissing match. You're done with the competition.
04
Improve the vibe of your home and create a safe, healthy space for you and your family.
05
Set boundaries and disengage in a way that facilitates connection + improves relationships
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from DENISE:
"I honestly don't know where I'd be without your program. It made all the difference in my life"
I'M IN
A year from now, how do you want to feel about your stepfamily life?
NO MORE PLAYING THE VICTIM. TAKE BACK YOUR POWER...
"Working with Jamie gave me the tools to control what I can control, and let go of things I can't. I'm a happier person, wife and stepmom. I highly recommend.."
— Sarah, Atlanta GA
You're stronger than you think.
But if you're anything like me, you need a little support to take things to the next level. You want someone whose been there. Who gets you.
I went from crying on the bathroom floor with a glass of wine, thinking about getting in my car and driving far away, to feeling confident and in control of my stepfamily life and stressors. I used to feel so overwhelmed my hands would physically shake. Now things that used to rock me to my core, don't even phase me. Let's get you here too!
It doesn't have to feel this hard.
Stop obsessing over how the ex parents the kids. You know you've done it. Your time and energy will be better spent...
Stop waking up with regret for your over-reaction the night before...
Stop hearing your partner say "you need to let it go" because you actually have...
Know how to disengage whats not serving you, without disconnecting from your marriage and your stepkids
Understand your triggers and whats really going on when you want to lose your shhhhhh....
Stop fighting with your partner about his lack of follow-through with house rules...
invest in yo-self →
kind words
"I sometimes feel like I need a handbook on life, and a handbook on being a stepmom... and now I have one.
We don't have to be alone or feel like we have no one to turn to for support. Here is the support we need.
- Megan, Bolingbrook, IL
kind words
“I didn't think it would be worth it. It was. I didn't think it would work for me. It did. I didn't think I'd be *that* success story. I am. ”
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- CAMILLE S.
When I became a stepmom at the age of 26, I quickly realized that despite the overwhelming support for "real moms", stepmoms were still met with judgement, stereotypes and standards that are impossible to meet. No one talks about the struggles that come with being a stepmom. Not only have I set out to change that, I'm on a mission to show stepmoms how to live a KICK-ASS Life amongst the extra stress.
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i can help because i've been there
Sitting on the bathroom floor, bawling my eyes out, wondering what
the heck I was thinking marrying a man with three kids and an ex wife. That's how this whole thing started.
As a Child of Divorce and Child Protection Worker with a background in Psychology and Social Service Work, I thought I knew what I was signing up for. But as I am sure you can guess
I HAD NO FREAKING IDEA WHAT AND QUICKLY FOUND MYSELF FEELING INSECURE, OVERWHELMED AND CONSUMED.
One day, after having a complete breakdown on my bathroom floor, I decided to go to the internet for support. But my search came up short. Despite the overwhelming amount of resources for Moms, there was NOTHING for Stepmoms.
Well, that’s not necessarily true. I found a lot of b*tching, a lot of complaining and a lot of negativity. Just no solid, solution-focused advice on how to manage it all. I didn’t know a lot about step-parenting, but I knew one thing for sure: sitting around b*tching and complaining about how difficult being a stepmom is, would not make being a stepmom any easier!
So, I set out to figure it out myself.
nowI know how to help!
It's the step-by-step framework that has supported thousands of stepmoms
in taking back their power
I want to show you how to be the expert on your unique stepfamily dynamic.
NOT ONLY WILL YOU LEAVE WITH A ROADMAP FOR RIGHT NOW, I'LL SHOW YOU HOW TO TWEAK THINGS AS YOUR STEPFAMILY LIFE EBBS AND FLOWS
You've noticed the ebbs and flows right?
What works with your stepkids right now, may not work with your stepkids in a couple years from now.
Your relationship with the ex may change.
Stepfamily life is fluid.
I'm going to show you how to ride the waves and pivot as things evolve.
This program includes everything you need THRIVE AS A STEPMOM
This program includes
And gives you the tools to pivot as your stepfamily life evolves.
everything
you need
TO THRIVE AS A STEPMOM
If you want this to be the year that you finally:
Stop obsessing over the ex.
Stop getting hijacked by a lawyer's letter or a snotty text.
Have healthy relationships, even with those who don't want a healthy relationship with you
Define what being a good stepmom means to you
Make personal growth and self care a priority
Be confident in your reactions instead of worrying that your stepkids will tell their mom what you said...
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This for you if:
is
YOU'RE READY TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE
YOU WANT TO IMPROVE RELATIONSHIPS, FIND YOUR ROLE + MINIMIZE STEPFAMILY STRESS
YOU'RE READY TO LET GO OF HOW YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD BE AND FOCUS ON WHAT IS
It's probably for you if...
not
YOU'RE NOT WILLING TO PUT IN THE WORK
You PREFER TO BLAME OTHERS FOR HOW YOUR LIFE IS TURNING OUT
YOU'RE NOT INTO SOLUTIONS. YOU'D PREFER TO JUST VENT AND B*TCH.
Let's do this thing.
SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
QUESTIONS
Are there live calls?
No this is a self-study framework that you can go through at pace that works for you!.
I'm in KICK-ASS Stepmom, do I get a discount?
Yes. Members get 20% off all additional resources. Your discount code is in the community. It is the members' responsibility to use the code. There will be no reimbursement for those who do not use the discount code upon signing up. Codes cannot be used for Presale or in addition to another discount. Code cannot be used in conjunction with another promo.
Can I book and additional call with Jamie?
When does the program begin?
What is your refund policy?
Do you have a payment plan?
You bet. There is an option to sign up for a discounted one-on-one coaching call when you join the program.
You'll get access as soon as you join.
Due to the nature of digital products there are NO REFUNDS.
There are no payment plans while the program is discounted.
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